Personal growth

Question: You envision a project and try to realize it. You have a thousand and one ways to go about it. You can have a mentor, etc., but in the end, it's still you who has to make the decisions. Along the way, you encounter some obstacles. You reach a point where some things get easier, while in other areas, you get stuck. In life or business, is it worth taking the path of least resistance? How do you determine whether it's worth skipping over an obstacle?

Answer: They say it's hard to give a definitive answer because, in most cases, it's simply a test of how much we truly want something.

A slightly different article for you: a transcript of a two-hour live meeting that took place on September 14, 2024. I was in a trance for several hours, and the attendees asked a lot of interesting questions! It was conducted in my native language, Slovenian. I will try to make such meetings in English in the future :)

Question: What about flipping a coin for two ideas and observing which one you actually wanted based on your reaction?

Answer: There are different tricks. Visualization is enough to see if you would be satisfied with something. Sometimes, what we think we want can lead us further away from ourselves because it might take away even bigger priorities. You can have 100% priorities or 100% desires.

Question: Why do our desires and actions sometimes not align?

For example, someone wants to be rich but does nothing to achieve it. Or they want to have a great car but take no action, and so on. This creates a conflict—wanting to do something and not wanting to at the same time.

Answer: They say the biggest issue is often whether the person really wants it. Whether these are genuine desires at all.

Answer: Our lives don’t follow a strictly defined path, so we can accept that wherever we end up, we were meant to be there. This may be easy to say, but it’s true. If we didn’t want something, we wouldn’t have chosen that path. There was something there that we believed would benefit us.

Answer: There isn’t much to say about this. In the true sense of the word, negativity can only be seen in a physical form, that is, in physical pain. Everything else depends on perspective. Negativity does not exist outside of our opinions and our beliefs about what we think is positive.

Answer: There can be several reasons for a panic attack. It can be a reaction of the soul to the current situation or a reaction of consciousness. Usually, it is something deeper, and the attacks recur. All discomforts are fundamentally a consequence of an imbalance of the mind or body, where one affects the other.

Answer: This depends on several factors: the level of the soul, the person's willingness to listen, conditions, the period in the world, etc. In theory, anyone can succeed, but it is not necessary that they are already prepared to follow the path that would bring them success. Or the soul might assess that this is not the best path for them. If we follow our desires, even "failure" can be success. Failure is just our perspective on our situation.

Answer: Yes and no. It is good to be realistic in our everyday activities, not in our goals. It is important to know how much we can actually achieve in one day based on our work habits. When it comes to goals, it is not necessary to be realistic, because by moving forward we will sooner or later get closer to our goals, depending on our abilities, the time we dedicate, etc.

Answer: This concept is somewhat flawed, as it never truly comes to fruition. Those who "sacrifice" themselves for others are actually doing it for themselves. In other words, to some extent, they sacrifice others for themselves. For some, the greatest form of self-care is caring for others. Their life would not be complete without it.